There is way too much to even try to catch up....
so let's talk about now. I recently moved to a new city for work. I am here for a couple months. After? who knows... The world is wide open. That is terrifying and exciting at the same time. I have no plans...for the first time ever. My only forward planning is to schedule my hours so i can get to some good concerts, have enough time to roam around the state in my bad ass jeep when i have lots of days off in a row, hit the local dungeon, and i have some travel plans this month.
before i left the last city i met a boy. let's just call him Texas cuz he lives in texas. i had a friend from fetlife i was really looking forward to meeting. he was cool as shit and cute and probably loads of fun. i liked him. i also liked his shy friend. i dont know why exactly. i dont know what i was thinking.
ok back up. my fet friend was moving to the area right as i was leaving. we got to meet in person. he was in the city vs out on in outskirts where he lives...so he said we could meet up to eat after i got off work. he had a friend from texas with him that had driven with him on his road trip so he wouldnt be alone. pretty cool. so i get to meet both. theyre both cute. well we walk from work to my house so i can change then we go eat sushi. i dont want them to leave cuz i was having fun so we go to a bar...which was great. we hung out and chat in this hipster funky kind of mexican bar place. i started sparking with texas a bit. hard to explain better than that. i just liked him...idk why. i also liked the fet boy. they were both cute, interesting, nice. i had to make a call. part of it was simply that fet boy wasnt giving me signals. then again texas wasnt exactly either. but the evening continued and it seemed to be going well. sadly...my memory is showing now its damage and why i need to write sooner. there are some fuzzy details...i can pull them out if i try.
eh...i keep getting distracted by chatting and such on fb.
anyway the sparks were good with texas. the bar was fun. we then went to another one. there was dancing, shots, a bachelorette party with me taking a shot out of her belly... and then there was texas and me at my place...and fet boy was on the couch. awkward? shoulda been, but i drank too much. i puked...just a little...before we got home.
fet boy couldnt sleep...ended up making the long drive home...left his friend with me. this meant i had to drive all the way back to fet boy's house the next morning to take texas home there to get his bags and then take him to the airport. we were in the jeep like 5 hours. it was a long day...but it was pretty great.
when we got to the airport he realized he didnt have my number. i did have his. so he wouldnt leave til he had it. i called his phone and bsg rang. that's my ringer! lol...nerds we are. mine was a different one, but still bsg. it was an interesting way to part. we hadnt been kissing during the day because i didnt really know what to do. ... but at the airport we definitely did. it was actually pretty romantic.
he makes me nervous because i like him. hm. the ex was pleased actually...that i had slept with someone that i liked. i had a teensy tiny spree that same week... fet people...it was fun fun fun. then after this...and with sexcation plans coming up... i didnt again til sexcation. story for later...that i might not tell.
anyway we talked about going skydiving. i wanted my good friend to go with me...but that is probably not doable... so texas and i will do it. we talked about him visiting me cuz he has long weekends sometimes. he wont be free to come down for a couple more weeks at least. i told him when i had days off and he bought me a ticket to come see him. im nervous... and excited.
i like him...i dont know him well though. im afraid to like someone. i am afraid to be wrong about someone again. i was so fiercely wrong about my long term ex...and it colored my world wrong for years... was hard to see what was going on there. then the ex boyfriend... i was more wrong about him than i thought. i really thought i was being realistic and being a grown up by accepting him for who he is, flaws included. but still... i had more faith in him than he ever earned. i dont want to be one of those people who looks back and has bad shit to say about their ex. the breakup was painful and the loss horrible and wrecking. now though...after weeks of building a real friendship back together because that's what i love most from him... ... it's getting mucked up. this is the part that will make me remember him well...or awful... eh. i dont wanna have an ex i think badly of. i also admit i dont want to have fallen in love with someone that is so... ... well... i might insert adjectives later. not now. that is a whole nother topic anyway.
ive also got a crush over here...on a bartender. i dont think it's going well. i do not understand people...boys. i have been hit on and come on to a gajillion times just this week. the one guy here that i am interested in is playing hard to get. i thought i got on good footing...from last night i was pretty sure, but alas...i am waiting to hear from him today like a dolt. and my ass is getting tired from being on this hard chair at the computer all day. i should get my ass out of the place. yeah there was a lil smooching last night. he was going to come over after he got off work and then i passed out...missed him by less than 30 minutes when he text. dammit. i should have given him my extra key and told him to come wake me. i fell asleep fully clothed waiting. im so lame.
then again im awesome. last night i danced a bunch. i took over the jukebox at this redneck, biker kind of place and we played house music and dubstep all night...me and a girl i know. i got some of the others dancing, then what was left of the whole place. i made more new friends... and learned a lil about which regulars are difficult. ... and practiced keeping my temper when i wanna tell someone off... can't piss off the regulars, or the staff if i wanna be hanging out there myself.
well...im dumb... if he were all that interested i would have heard from him today i think. i will stop waiting. i will finish my online chores and get my ass outside somewhere. on the one hand i wanna say well dont worry about it, i have texas. i dont HAVE anything. That's just a hint of a start of a who knows what... and i'm not putting all my eggs in one basket until there is a reason to.
i hate that i meet guy after guy after guy...and almost none of them are even remotely interesting. the ex said i let people flirt with me that aren't good enough to even be allowed to do that. i dont know what he meant, but i wonder sometimes if he was right...doesnt matter i guess. i aint letting any of them get their hands on me.
also...i am wondering if i am only attracted to jerks. or idiots. a friend warned me that all guys are idiots. i said something about only when they open their mouths. then i realized i like shy guys a lot...maybe that's just cuz the idiot ain't showing yet. lol.
anyway...im going to go find something to do with myself. more later.
Adults ONLY
BDSM ANYONE? if not...move along...
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Aug 6th...whoops forgot to post
Ok...it's late and I'm hyper and I'm mildly nervous about writing here because the ex has the address. *shrug*
Lemme tell you about my life.
I used to be vanellabean... which is a name other people
on the internet have since appropriated. Thank goodness you can google
that name now and NOT find the old me. heh. Why is that so bad? good
question, considering that I have much worse things up publicly on
another site...nude pics and other very naughty bits.
I used to tell the stories.... of all the naughty things I
have done. Somewhere...oh somewhere...i have all the pages saved. I
used to be so open, so out there...just do it. live it. love it. grab
the bull by the horns. somewhere something happened and it got fucked
up.
ok...so i know what happened. hindsight is a bitch. i let
my 'me' fall asleep. i got domestic. i got tame. i got dull even. ok so
hiking, camping, fine dining...all fun. but if i look back now i see
all the things i cut out, all the things i put off, all the distractions
and damage i let run my life. it cost me. it really cost me. sometimes
you have to fall down to get up. i was hovering...complacent...
suffering... taking it... and then i met this boy. he woke up parts of
me. but i failed. i stayed asleep. i lost the boy. for a bit i thought i
would drown. then i remembered who i am. i remembered who i was. i
remembered everything.
my memory is a root of many of my problems and i let it
beat me this time. i forgot myself. i let fear guide me and pain and i
confused everything. i became a shell of myself. i lost my love. hahaha i
got knocked down, but i get up again...trolololol.
so now then... where am I? alive. i hate the cost. i hate
hate hate hate hate the cost. but i'm alive again...all the way. it
reminds me of how you get new glasses and are like 'holy fuck i can see
shit!' but you didn't know you were blind before. well shit... that's me
now. so let's lay down a few bits and pieces of what i've been up
to...
-----
i ran home..."home" where my friends are, where I knew
people who would console me and make me eat. It was hard, but it was a
good move. it was still forward.
i got back. then...immediately dug in.
monday - i went to a bbq from meetup.com with some other
board game nerds. it was ok. i took a coworker. she's pretty cool. we
hung out and had fun, mostly kept to ourselves and a few other people.
was alright. then she and i went to a pub restaurant and ate a little. i
don't drink beer...never have....can't stand it. but they had no
liquor. dammit. she has a friend in from out of town so we go meet up
with him. this guy has a huuuuuuuge crush on her. he is
quiet...sedate...heh...stoned. turns out he has friends in town with
him. so we meet them. we go hang at a bar. in the neighborhood we were
in it closed at 12 something on a weekday. lame. i can't remember a
whole lot besides getting drunk on vodka. one of the boys tried to
order a round of 7 washington apples. what showed up was 7 waters. lol.
he tried again and we got shots. i think we did that twice. in less
than 2 hours i think we had a
tab of $200 or something. yowser.
no one was bored. we were laughing and being silly and not
flirting. ha. i was def not there yet. anyway... so we go back to
their hotel. three girls, four guys...and we're hanging out. some of
them were getting stoned and bitching because it was early and they had
no alcohol. i think i googled a store for them and they went to fetch
beer. i had been flirting ... i guess i had been flirting... with this
guy... zomg i'm such an ass. i was half drunk and he pulled his hat off
at the table and i went "where's your hair?" but apparently in just the
right jovial way because it was funny and well received. I think there
was some head rubbing.
anyway so he hangs out with me in the room while the
others go get beer. dammit i should have written sooner. it's fuzzy.
there was kissing, some petting, hm...more head rubbing maybe. he was a
good kisser. oh shit that reminds me of another story before this one.
shit. i think i'll skip that one. well shoot...i remember legs
wrapping...i can't remember much of what went on, but eventually they
came back.
so now there are 7 of us again all hanging out chatting,
laughing, whatever. i've got my adventure hat on so i say why the fuck
not and take up a beer. it's a bud light. ick. ick ick. but i drank it.
i drank all of it. dont think i had more than one. i didnt need more
than one though. i remember suddenly going "oh shit! can i have this
after liquor?" and they all laughed at me. I drank it anyway. I think
there was more flirting or whatever. doesnt matter. i think i was fun
and entertaining. my coworker eventually left. the other girl kept
asking to see my tits. i dont recall when exactly i obliged her, but i
def did. i should have jumped on that girl. she was pretty hot...but i
couldnt tell in my grief and booze mix if she was into me or girls. so i
played it safe. ha. safe. screw playing it safe.
well around 3 i think everyone ended up sleeping. i dont
know exactly how it happened, but i went to sleep. i was like i should
get a cab soon. zomg everyone is asleep. where is my shirt? oh well. and
i fell asleep in the middle of one of the hotel beds, which was between
two boys.
ok what else do i remember. one time i got up earlier to
pee and the coworker was in the bathroom with one of the boys, but they
were sitting talking...on the edge of the tub. they didnt want to leave
so they got in the tub, closed the curtain, turned on the water.... i
assume put their feet up...and i peed. lol. the next time later when i
got out of bed to pee the door was locked and no one would answer. turns
out the coworker was gone, but the guy was in there, asleep...we
thought for hours that he was in the tub, but he was on the floor. so i
have to get one of the two shirtless guys sleeping on my sides to get up
and take me to the lobby. so i must have had a shirt at that time. lol
it was hillarious. then he went to pee but didnt tell me...so i come out
of the bathroom downstairs with no pants, no jacket, no wallet, no
phone and i'm like 'fuck...what room did i come out of?' but then he
showed up. i was drunk and happy.
i'm pretty sure drunk and happy bean is a good combo cuz
it usually results in attempts to get in my pants...or my phone. ha.
well so this guy that has this huuuuuuuuuge crush on my workplace friend
then proceded to try to get some. i was still drunk. i did not get much
sleep because the flirty boy from earlier and the crush boy took
freakin turns trying to convince me to get horny. this could have been
epic in a big bad ellabean way, but i was numb. i was still hurting too
much. so i sleep...a little... alternating snugglies between the two
dudes. awwwkward. i think the crush dude even tried the 'how did your
sleepy hand get on my big dick? but while youre there lets rub it with
your hand.' ha. lame. he blue balled himself! ha! the other guy wasnt
rude or pushy like that. honestly i should have given more of a fuck
that the one dude was being a douche, but i didnt. i knew i was safe and
didnt give a shit.
i wake up early at some point and want my shirt. no idea
where it is. pants still on. heh. the hottest guy of the bunch has
moved...and when he did i remember asking him what he was up to cuz he
had been sleeping next to the other girl who was next to the bathroom
floor guy now face down on the other bed. he says as he moves "i sleep
big" lol. well later it turns out he went to sleep on my shirt...and
when he figured it out he would not give it up. he wanted me to stay
tits out. fine. whateve.r
so... 9 something am they all wake up one at a time...hung
over. wanting the hair of the dog. so a couple try going down to the
hotel restaurant, only they wont serve them any alcohol til 11. they are
PISSED and immediately start hating on my city. ha. the city serves
alcohol starting at 7. just not that restaurant. anyway, so they want
to go up to the pool on the roof. i have nada...and i'm thinking maybe i
wander home. but flirty boy seems to want me to stick around. so ... i
borrow a black wife beater and the smallest boxers we can find. and
around 10 we get up to the pool. some dude that was there...50 maybe...
had a small cooler of beer and offered some up. i took one. coors
light. ick again. i took pics. it's kind of epic for me. a
beer...sober... for breakfast...in a hot tub in a wife beater. redneck
woot. it's funny...the first thing i really wanted to do was tell the
boy about it. i knew he'd get a kick
out of it. i kept quiet. i told him later i think. it's funny...i didnt
think about it that way, but he was my best friend. i lost more than a
lover, more than a boyfriend, more than a sub or playpartner. i lost my
best friend....the person you want to let in on everything.
anyway it was funny and fun to adventure. next we went to
the restaurant where they all ordered caesar's - a spicy morning drink.
i didnt. ha. i ate a lil. then we went to the market and water front
and they were all VERY boring people when they were sober. i was too i
think. i ended up leaving them to go on a boat tour, excusing myself to
get ready for other things and clean.
i get home. i dont clean. i sit on the puter and
socialize. whoops. i didnt clean for a while. dishes sat in the washer
for a while before i washed them. i went to buy soap...but all the
dishwasher soap boxes were HUGE and i thought zomg i wont make this many
dishes anymore...and i cried in the store...like an idiot.
anyway. next...
It's still tuesday now... and i get myself dressed up to
go to a 'kinky poker' night... with ppl i met on my kinky page. actually
i hadnt. i was looking at local events and saw it. rsvp'd and asked the
hostess if it was ok coming since i didnt know anyone. she said great
and was nice and chatty and said she couldnt wait to meet me. awesome. i
asked if i should bring anything. she said no, but she never turns away
wine. i brought wine. new favorite. win.
i figure it's kink ppl...yay i can wear some goth shit.
... everyone looked so vanilla. zomg really. but i looked hot. burnout
(i think that's the word) black shirt with a vest so you cant totally
see my bra and stuff. grey skirt, black boots, black and white collar,
my hair looked amazing. win.
so i sit down and dont know anyone. 15 people playing
texas hold em. never played poker before. they STILL don't believe me. i
busted twice in the first hour or so...before the time was up for
buying back in. so i bought in three times. then i got second place.
win! The hostess joked later that i was mute until i started winning. i
was watching, learning, trying to store rules in my head, trying to see
what people did. i didnt know anyone. i was shy...at first. heh.
so i made a couple new acquaintances. one dude was real
cool...in part because he wasnt hitting on me. he had a girlfriend and
he was just being friends like friendly. after the game got smaller,
some of the losers played strip poker at another table. then they tried
to get me in. of course they had all see the tits on the other girls
before. they seemed geared toward getting me naked. i was oh so tempted,
but declined because the girls seemed to want to be done, but were
offering to accomodate me. heh. well we ended up going out to eat after
instead. yay. so i got to know some of them a bit more.
the friendly dude and me have kept in contact and he
offered to go to a kink thing later in the week so i wouldnt have to go
alone. ...ill get there though.
end tuesday.
----
fuck i cant remember wednesday.
i think i spent some time with my parents, or a gf, or guy friend, or something.
----
thursday... orientation at the spot. yes, i'm going to
call it the spot. it is this big center
here...club...organization...foundation...whatever. it's a sex club. i
was thinking it was kind of a bdsm club thing. nope. it's a sex club
thing. ... and part of their weekly stuff is bdsm related. ok. what does
this mean? zomg i dont even know how deep this rabbit hole goes yet.
the orientation was so long and so boring and i was thinking ok come on
you have got to let some of us experienced people have shorter ones.
dont do this, do this, dont do this, ok got it. then a tour. ok then my
eyes pop out of my head.
the play spaces change regularly due to the different
events. they move equipment around a lot, so it looks different all the
time they say. sure i think. no kidding. true story. they have some old
stuff, some new stuff, some heavy duty shit. zomg some day i really
wanna get tied up in the bondage bed. :D
anyway, orientation was ok, but i was alone. afterwards i
randomly say hey to a dude there...decent looking guy, older than me.
.. cool. well i say now what are we supposed to do until the party
starts in an hour. he says eat. i say ok wanna go find a mcdonalds? (cuz
i know i can handle fries on a bad appetite)... found a burger place
instead. managed the whole burger. win. talked the whole stupid time
about the boy. why? cuz this dude asks what brought me out. what
happened. what about this and this and this. well shit dude...you asked
for it. i apologized, but he said he thought it was pretty cool that i
could talk frankly and not be a spaz. ok my words...i dont remember his.
well anyway he seemed to be enjoying himself. we go back to the spot
and to the party.
we socialize a bit, but then the friendly poker dude is
there. i get a big hug and a huge sigh of relief to know someone. so we
wander a bit, he shows me around some more. i meet a couple ppl, but
it's a blur. i see people from poker and wave later. so anyway we end up
sitting down in one of the like 4 or more big rooms and we are talking
to people and in the middle of a sentence i interrupt myself with
"what's in that case?!?!?" cuz it looks like a wand case...and it is.
so this cute army guy in from germany for a bit...he pulls out his case,
shows it off. i'm already chomping at the bit. zomg i want under that
wand so bad i can smell the ozone already. well so i kind of politely
offer myself as a volunteer. i remember them saying be polite and no is
no and dont ask again so im trying to be polite. well he was shy so he
didnt exactly jump up and down but he said yes. but then he didnt move
or say anything more.
zomg you can imagine me squirming in my seat. dammit what did i wear?
oh yeah long white skirt, sexy blue top. i looked gooooood. anyway. so
my friendly poker guy is next to me and sees me squirming. heh. i
explained and then finally the wand guy asks me shall we and i about
jump outta my shoes. heh. but...then i tell him about me as a bottom.
1 - i dont sub. i bottom...
2 - and its for pleasure, not pain.
3 - i tell him i will let him know what i like or dont.
4 - i tell him that i dont squeal, squirm, giggle, etc.
that my little twitches are pleasure and that i relax under this thing
like a massage
5 - i tell him it's gotta be on low.
6 - i top from the bottom. .... i dont think i said that, but i think it was clear. and he was still game.
so we find a table, which turns out the one we could find
not in use was actually a stretcher. dont touch the metal parts when
you're holding the grounding peice! ha. that was a fun surprise. i think
i squealed a bit.
anyway so my poker friend is there. the burger guy had
wanted to see, so i went and found him too. also two lesbian
girls...noobs to d/s, but serious about it...they wanted to see. i had
chat them up earlier (and since). so i start out with an audience of 4,
but then i take my clothes off and it gets bigger. awkward. i was ahead
of schedule apparently, so i have to stand there in just my panties for a
few while he finishes setting up. he seemed more nervous than me about
the audience.
let the games begin. zomg zomg zomg it felt so good.
closest i had been to really horny since the ...thing. anyway. so do i
hold still? do i twitch? no. i squirm. i moan. i make faces. i look like
i'm getting sexed up for over and hour. back, front, back, front. i
have a sunburn but i dont fucking care. zomg zomg zomg it felt so good. i
was gonna say it felt like electricity...derp. i am getting tired at
this hour. I was aware of everyone watching and it was weird because i'm
not much of an exhibitionist. but i think i'm leeeearrrrning....:D I
admit it, once in a while i realized it must be pretty damn hot to see
me writing around, and at times flexing my toes so hard they would
cramp...arching my back, twisting my hips. i bet it was hot. i was hot. i
thought the whole thing was hot. i misssss the wand so much sometimes. i
can't wait til my next visit with it. :D
ok...trying to unblur...my head is fuzzy with warm and wet thoughts.
ok i had told the guy he would get tired before i did. he
said usually the bottom gets tired first...or maybe it was the other way
i dunno. anyway. his wand got overheated a bit before he got tired.
then again i have seen since...people having it on for hours nonstop and
never stopping. hm. well after i had spun out as much adrenaline as i
think i had in me...i got up, got dressed, went and sat. of all
wonderful surprises...poker guy sat next to me... nothing cuddly
exactly, nothing inappropriate, but he kind of let me lean on him and
put an arm on me. oh thank goodness. after care... something you don't
really really truly appreciate until you either don't have it, or don't
get just what you need. i
needed just that little bit of support at the least. my adrenaline
fell out. it was a weird feeling, but i am sure i let out more than just
some pain and pleasure. im sure it was
quite therapeutic.
after that...i dont remember what i did. i think i
socialized some more. the burger guy asked for my name online, or
number...cant remember which, but i gave it to him. he asked if he could
take me out for drinks. i said sure. I think I went home at a fairly
reasonable hour.
---- friday? fuck if i remember. i think i'm going to have
to go and reference my damn facebook before i finish all this business.
this is enough for today. more LATER!
Monday, August 6, 2012
freedom list beginings
Ok...it's late and I'm hyper and I'm mildly nervous about writing here because the ex has the address. *shrug*
Lemme tell you about my life.
I used to be vanellabean... which is a name other people
on the internet have since appropriated. Thank goodness you can google
that name now and NOT find the old me. heh. Why is that so bad? good
question, considering that I have much worse things up publicly on
another site...nude pics and other very naughty bits.
I used to tell the stories.... of all the naughty things I
have done. Somewhere...oh somewhere...i have all the pages saved. I
used to be so open, so out there...just do it. live it. love it. grab
the bull by the horns. somewhere something happened and it got fucked
up.
ok...so i know what happened. hindsight is a bitch. i let
my 'me' fall asleep. i got domestic. i got tame. i got dull even. ok so
hiking, camping, fine dining...all fun. but if i look back now i see
all the things i cut out, all the things i put off, all the distractions
and damage i let run my life. it cost me. it really cost me. sometimes
you have to fall down to get up. i was hovering...complacent...
suffering... taking it... and then i met this boy. he woke up parts of
me. but i failed. i stayed asleep. i lost the boy. for a bit i thought i
would drown. then i remembered who i am. i remembered who i was. i
remembered everything.
my memory is a root of many of my problems and i let it
beat me this time. i forgot myself. i let fear guide me and pain and i
confused everything. i became a shell of myself. i lost my love. hahaha i
got knocked down, but i get up again...trolololol.
so now then... where am I? alive. i hate the cost. i hate
hate hate hate hate the cost. but i'm alive again...all the way. it
reminds me of how you get new glasses and are like 'holy fuck i can see
shit!' but you didn't know you were blind before. well shit... that's me
now. so let's lay down a few bits and pieces of what i've been up
to...
-----
i ran home..."home" where my friends are, where I knew
people who would console me and make me eat. It was hard, but it was a
good move. it was still forward.
i got back. then...immediately dug in.
monday - i went to a bbq from meetup.com with some other
board game nerds. it was ok. i took a coworker. she's pretty cool. we
hung out and had fun, mostly kept to ourselves and a few other people.
was alright. then she and i went to a pub restaurant and ate a little. i
don't drink beer...never have....can't stand it. but they had no
liquor. dammit. she has a friend in from out of town so we go meet up
with him. this guy has a huuuuuuuge crush on her. he is
quiet...sedate...heh...stoned. turns out he has friends in town with
him. so we meet them. we go hang at a bar. in the neighborhood we were
in it closed at 12 something on a weekday. lame. i can't remember a
whole lot besides getting drunk on vodka. one of the boys tried to
order a round of 7 washington apples. what showed up was 7 waters. lol.
he tried again and we got shots. i think we did that twice. in less
than 2 hours i think we had a
tab of $200 or something. yowser.
no one was bored. we were laughing and being silly and not
flirting. ha. i was def not there yet. anyway... so we go back to
their hotel. three girls, four guys...and we're hanging out. some of
them were getting stoned and bitching because it was early and they had
no alcohol. i think i googled a store for them and they went to fetch
beer. i had been flirting ... i guess i had been flirting... with this
guy... zomg i'm such an ass. i was half drunk and he pulled his hat off
at the table and i went "where's your hair?" but apparently in just the
right jovial way because it was funny and well received. I think there
was some head rubbing.
anyway so he hangs out with me in the room while the
others go get beer. dammit i should have written sooner. it's fuzzy.
there was kissing, some petting, hm...more head rubbing maybe. he was a
good kisser. oh shit that reminds me of another story before this one.
shit. i think i'll skip that one. well shoot...i remember legs
wrapping...i can't remember much of what went on, but eventually they
came back.
so now there are 7 of us again all hanging out chatting,
laughing, whatever. i've got my adventure hat on so i say why the fuck
not and take up a beer. it's a bud light. ick. ick ick. but i drank it.
i drank all of it. dont think i had more than one. i didnt need more
than one though. i remember suddenly going "oh shit! can i have this
after liquor?" and they all laughed at me. I drank it anyway. I think
there was more flirting or whatever. doesnt matter. i think i was fun
and entertaining. my coworker eventually left. the other girl kept
asking to see my tits. i dont recall when exactly i obliged her, but i
def did. i should have jumped on that girl. she was pretty hot...but i
couldnt tell in my grief and booze mix if she was into me or girls. so i
played it safe. ha. safe. screw playing it safe.
well around 3 i think everyone ended up sleeping. i dont
know exactly how it happened, but i went to sleep. i was like i should
get a cab soon. zomg everyone is asleep. where is my shirt? oh well. and
i fell asleep in the middle of one of the hotel beds, which was between
two boys.
ok what else do i remember. one time i got up earlier to
pee and the coworker was in the bathroom with one of the boys, but they
were sitting talking...on the edge of the tub. they didnt want to leave
so they got in the tub, closed the curtain, turned on the water.... i
assume put their feet up...and i peed. lol. the next time later when i
got out of bed to pee the door was locked and no one would answer. turns
out the coworker was gone, but the guy was in there, asleep...we
thought for hours that he was in the tub, but he was on the floor. so i
have to get one of the two shirtless guys sleeping on my sides to get up
and take me to the lobby. so i must have had a shirt at that time. lol
it was hillarious. then he went to pee but didnt tell me...so i come out
of the bathroom downstairs with no pants, no jacket, no wallet, no
phone and i'm like 'fuck...what room did i come out of?' but then he
showed up. i was drunk and happy.
i'm pretty sure drunk and happy bean is a good combo cuz
it usually results in attempts to get in my pants...or my phone. ha.
well so this guy that has this huuuuuuuuuge crush on my workplace friend
then proceded to try to get some. i was still drunk. i did not get much
sleep because the flirty boy from earlier and the crush boy took
freakin turns trying to convince me to get horny. this could have been
epic in a big bad ellabean way, but i was numb. i was still hurting too
much. so i sleep...a little... alternating snugglies between the two
dudes. awwwkward. i think the crush dude even tried the 'how did your
sleepy hand get on my big dick? but while youre there lets rub it with
your hand.' ha. lame. he blue balled himself! ha! the other guy wasnt
rude or pushy like that. honestly i should have given more of a fuck
that the one dude was being a douche, but i didnt. i knew i was safe and
didnt give a shit.
i wake up early at some point and want my shirt. no idea
where it is. pants still on. heh. the hottest guy of the bunch has
moved...and when he did i remember asking him what he was up to cuz he
had been sleeping next to the other girl who was next to the bathroom
floor guy now face down on the other bed. he says as he moves "i sleep
big" lol. well later it turns out he went to sleep on my shirt...and
when he figured it out he would not give it up. he wanted me to stay
tits out. fine. whateve.r
so... 9 something am they all wake up one at a time...hung
over. wanting the hair of the dog. so a couple try going down to the
hotel restaurant, only they wont serve them any alcohol til 11. they are
PISSED and immediately start hating on my city. ha. the city serves
alcohol starting at 7. just not that restaurant. anyway, so they want
to go up to the pool on the roof. i have nada...and i'm thinking maybe i
wander home. but flirty boy seems to want me to stick around. so ... i
borrow a black wife beater and the smallest boxers we can find. and
around 10 we get up to the pool. some dude that was there...50 maybe...
had a small cooler of beer and offered some up. i took one. coors
light. ick again. i took pics. it's kind of epic for me. a
beer...sober... for breakfast...in a hot tub in a wife beater. redneck
woot. it's funny...the first thing i really wanted to do was tell the
boy about it. i knew he'd get a kick
out of it. i kept quiet. i told him later i think. it's funny...i didnt
think about it that way, but he was my best friend. i lost more than a
lover, more than a boyfriend, more than a sub or playpartner. i lost my
best friend....the person you want to let in on everything.
anyway it was funny and fun to adventure. next we went to
the restaurant where they all ordered caesar's - a spicy morning drink.
i didnt. ha. i ate a lil. then we went to the market and water front
and they were all VERY boring people when they were sober. i was too i
think. i ended up leaving them to go on a boat tour, excusing myself to
get ready for other things and clean.
i get home. i dont clean. i sit on the puter and
socialize. whoops. i didnt clean for a while. dishes sat in the washer
for a while before i washed them. i went to buy soap...but all the
dishwasher soap boxes were HUGE and i thought zomg i wont make this many
dishes anymore...and i cried in the store...like an idiot.
anyway. next...
It's still tuesday now... and i get myself dressed up to
go to a 'kinky poker' night... with ppl i met on my kinky page. actually
i hadnt. i was looking at local events and saw it. rsvp'd and asked the
hostess if it was ok coming since i didnt know anyone. she said great
and was nice and chatty and said she couldnt wait to meet me. awesome. i
asked if i should bring anything. she said no, but she never turns away
wine. i brought wine. new favorite. win.
i figure it's kink ppl...yay i can wear some goth shit.
... everyone looked so vanilla. zomg really. but i looked hot. burnout
(i think that's the word) black shirt with a vest so you cant totally
see my bra and stuff. grey skirt, black boots, black and white collar,
my hair looked amazing. win.
so i sit down and dont know anyone. 15 people playing
texas hold em. never played poker before. they STILL don't believe me. i
busted twice in the first hour or so...before the time was up for
buying back in. so i bought in three times. then i got second place.
win! The hostess joked later that i was mute until i started winning. i
was watching, learning, trying to store rules in my head, trying to see
what people did. i didnt know anyone. i was shy...at first. heh.
so i made a couple new acquaintances. one dude was real
cool...in part because he wasnt hitting on me. he had a girlfriend and
he was just being friends like friendly. after the game got smaller,
some of the losers played strip poker at another table. then they tried
to get me in. of course they had all see the tits on the other girls
before. they seemed geared toward getting me naked. i was oh so tempted,
but declined because the girls seemed to want to be done, but were
offering to accomodate me. heh. well we ended up going out to eat after
instead. yay. so i got to know some of them a bit more.
the friendly dude and me have kept in contact and he
offered to go to a kink thing later in the week so i wouldnt have to go
alone. ...ill get there though.
end tuesday.
----
fuck i cant remember wednesday.
i think i spent some time with my parents, or a gf, or guy friend, or something.
----
thursday... orientation at the spot. yes, i'm going to
call it the spot. it is this big center
here...club...organization...foundation...whatever. it's a sex club. i
was thinking it was kind of a bdsm club thing. nope. it's a sex club
thing. ... and part of their weekly stuff is bdsm related. ok. what does
this mean? zomg i dont even know how deep this rabbit hole goes yet.
the orientation was so long and so boring and i was thinking ok come on
you have got to let some of us experienced people have shorter ones.
dont do this, do this, dont do this, ok got it. then a tour. ok then my
eyes pop out of my head.
the play spaces change regularly due to the different
events. they move equipment around a lot, so it looks different all the
time they say. sure i think. no kidding. true story. they have some old
stuff, some new stuff, some heavy duty shit. zomg some day i really
wanna get tied up in the bondage bed. :D
anyway, orientation was ok, but i was alone. afterwards i
randomly say hey to a dude there...decent looking guy, older than me.
.. cool. well i say now what are we supposed to do until the party
starts in an hour. he says eat. i say ok wanna go find a mcdonalds? (cuz
i know i can handle fries on a bad appetite)... found a burger place
instead. managed the whole burger. win. talked the whole stupid time
about the boy. why? cuz this dude asks what brought me out. what
happened. what about this and this and this. well shit dude...you asked
for it. i apologized, but he said he thought it was pretty cool that i
could talk frankly and not be a spaz. ok my words...i dont remember his.
well anyway he seemed to be enjoying himself. we go back to the spot
and to the party.
we socialize a bit, but then the friendly poker dude is
there. i get a big hug and a huge sigh of relief to know someone. so we
wander a bit, he shows me around some more. i meet a couple ppl, but
it's a blur. i see people from poker and wave later. so anyway we end up
sitting down in one of the like 4 or more big rooms and we are talking
to people and in the middle of a sentence i interrupt myself with
"what's in that case?!?!?" cuz it looks like a wand case...and it is.
so this cute army guy in from germany for a bit...he pulls out his case,
shows it off. i'm already chomping at the bit. zomg i want under that
wand so bad i can smell the ozone already. well so i kind of politely
offer myself as a volunteer. i remember them saying be polite and no is
no and dont ask again so im trying to be polite. well he was shy so he
didnt exactly jump up and down but he said yes. but then he didnt move
or say anything more.
zomg you can imagine me squirming in my seat. dammit what did i wear?
oh yeah long white skirt, sexy blue top. i looked gooooood. anyway. so
my friendly poker guy is next to me and sees me squirming. heh. i
explained and then finally the wand guy asks me shall we and i about
jump outta my shoes. heh. but...then i tell him about me as a bottom.
1 - i dont sub. i bottom...
2 - and its for pleasure, not pain.
3 - i tell him i will let him know what i like or dont.
4 - i tell him that i dont squeal, squirm, giggle, etc.
that my little twitches are pleasure and that i relax under this thing
like a massage
5 - i tell him it's gotta be on low.
6 - i top from the bottom. .... i dont think i said that, but i think it was clear. and he was still game.
so we find a table, which turns out the one we could find
not in use was actually a stretcher. dont touch the metal parts when
you're holding the grounding peice! ha. that was a fun surprise. i think
i squealed a bit.
anyway so my poker friend is there. the burger guy had
wanted to see, so i went and found him too. also two lesbian
girls...noobs to d/s, but serious about it...they wanted to see. i had
chat them up earlier (and since). so i start out with an audience of 4,
but then i take my clothes off and it gets bigger. awkward. i was ahead
of schedule apparently, so i have to stand there in just my panties for a
few while he finishes setting up. he seemed more nervous than me about
the audience.
let the games begin. zomg zomg zomg it felt so good.
closest i had been to really horny since the ...thing. anyway. so do i
hold still? do i twitch? no. i squirm. i moan. i make faces. i look like
i'm getting sexed up for over and hour. back, front, back, front. i
have a sunburn but i dont fucking care. zomg zomg zomg it felt so good. i
was gonna say it felt like electricity...derp. i am getting tired at
this hour. I was aware of everyone watching and it was weird because i'm
not much of an exhibitionist. but i think i'm leeeearrrrning....:D I
admit it, once in a while i realized it must be pretty damn hot to see
me writing around, and at times flexing my toes so hard they would
cramp...arching my back, twisting my hips. i bet it was hot. i was hot. i
thought the whole thing was hot. i misssss the wand so much sometimes. i
can't wait til my next visit with it. :D
ok...trying to unblur...my head is fuzzy with warm and wet thoughts.
ok i had told the guy he would get tired before i did. he
said usually the bottom gets tired first...or maybe it was the other way
i dunno. anyway. his wand got overheated a bit before he got tired.
then again i have seen since...people having it on for hours nonstop and
never stopping. hm. well after i had spun out as much adrenaline as i
think i had in me...i got up, got dressed, went and sat. of all
wonderful surprises...poker guy sat next to me... nothing cuddly
exactly, nothing inappropriate, but he kind of let me lean on him and
put an arm on me. oh thank goodness. after care... something you don't
really really truly appreciate until you either don't have it, or don't
get just what you need. i
needed just that little bit of support at the least. my adrenaline
fell out. it was a weird feeling, but i am sure i let out more than just
some pain and pleasure. im sure it was
quite therapeutic.
after that...i dont remember what i did. i think i
socialized some more. the burger guy asked for my name online, or
number...cant remember which, but i gave it to him. he asked if he could
take me out for drinks. i said sure. I think I went home at a fairly
reasonable hour.
---- friday? fuck if i remember. i think i'm going to have
to go and reference my damn facebook before i finish all this business.
this is enough for today. more LATER!
Monday, July 30, 2012
*clears throat*
new place. new people. new life.
where to fucking start....by hiding or deleting all the old posts.
right now though? i have to get my ass to work.
where to fucking start....by hiding or deleting all the old posts.
right now though? i have to get my ass to work.
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